Feeld vs Adam4Adam

For non-monogamy and open-minded exploration, Feeld is our top pick, 7.8/10. It’s smaller than Tinder, and the app can be glitchy, but no mainstream-ish app comes close on intent, inclusivity or how at-home it makes ENM, poly and kink-curious daters feel. Join free, link your partner if you’ve got one, see how busy your city is, and only think about Majestic once you know the crowd is there.

Adam4Adam's real strength is its price. A genuinely free core with messaging included is rare, and for gay and bi men in the United States that zero-cost entry plus a long-established crowd is a legitimately good deal, which is why value lands high at 8.2. The trade-offs are just as honest: the interface shows its age, the free tier is heavy with ads, the crowd thins out sharply once you leave the US, and, like any big open platform, it carries fake profiles and spam. I can't independently verify its live member numbers, so the members score reflects a well-supported estimate of a real US crowd rather than a measured headcount. This listing isn't a paid placement, its position here is my own editorial read. Net: if you're a gay or bi man in the US who wants to test the waters without paying, Adam4Adam is worth a look for the free messaging alone. Just go in expecting a dated feel and an ad-heavy free tier, and lean on the usual scam hygiene.